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Five years into her marriage she knew it wasn't going to work, yet she continued on for 20 more years only to realize that she had been hiding and functioning as a single parent for most of that time. It wasn't until she divorced, several months ago, that she really become hopeful for living the dream life she had always wanted -- and amazingly, without any bitterness or resentment for her ex -- who she now considers to be a positive and contributing co-parent.  

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I get a lot of people asking me to help them with the fallout of divorce. 

The traditional model of how one gets divorced creates so much tension. We’re given a model to become estranged from a person we might have been with for decades. This is a way community and family can feel comfortable -- if we truly separate. We shouldn’t care for (let alone still love in some way), talk to, or be friends with that person again. We’re supposed to separate our lives as much...